en individuals have family problems, family and service groups can often offer advice and help resolve problems. If separation or divorce is unavoidable, you should see an attorney for advice on how to protect your rights. Areas to Discuss at Initial Interview
When you first meet with your attorney, you should discuss and ask questions regarding the following:
Resolving marital problems
Financial concerns involving child support, alimony, spousal support, pendente lite support and equitable distribution of property acquired during the marriage
Determining child custody and visitation
Grounds for divorce
Domestic Violence Act and Restraining Order
Legal Rights and procedures in court
Retaining the attorney and payment for legal services and costs
Emergency Decision By The Court If necessary the Superior Court can make temporary decisions regarding:
Restraints to keep a violent spouse from harassing and interfering with your life
Occupancy of your house, apartment or condominium
Temporary custody and visitation of minor child
Temporary financial support for children and spouse
Injunction against disposal of personal property, real estate and other assets
Other temporary orders in the discretion of the Judge
Grounds For Divorce Under NJ laws a divorce may be granted for any of the following causes:
Willful and continued desertion for 12 or more months, either physical desertion or refusal to have sexual relations with the other spouse may establish this cause.
Extreme cruelty, including any physical or mental cruelty that endangers your safety or health, or which makes continued living together improper or unreasonable.
Separation, if separate and different places of living have been maintained for a least 18 consecutive months or more and there is no reasonable prospect of reconciliation.
"No-Fault" is the familiar term for a divorce based on the separation for at least 18 months. Neither side needs to set forth allegations of fault or abuse. Court appearances are still required.
Voluntarily-induced addiction or habituation to a narcotic drug or habitual drunkenness for 12 or more consecutive months.
Mental illness which resulted in the spouse being kept in an institution for 24 or more
consecutive months after the marriage was begun.
Imprisonment of the spouse for 18 or more consecutive months after the marriage was begun. ( This cause for divorce can be charged after the defendants release from prison only if the husband and wife have not resumed living together after imprisonment ended.)
Deviant sexual conduct voluntarily performed by the defendant without the consent of the spouse.
Is there a "legal separation?"
Technically, there is no such thing in New Jersey as a "legal separation." Separation simply means that you and your spouse no longer live together. Separation may occur by mutual consent or by one of you leaving or being expelled from your home.
What if my spouse has physically abused me?
If there has been actual or threatened physical abuse, your spouse may be ordered by the court to leave your residence and to stay away.
Filing For Divorce
A formal written document called a "complaint" will be prepared by your attorney based upon the information you have supplied. You must sign a statement to verify that the information in the complaint dealing with marriage, residency, children and grounds for divorce are true.
The complaint is filed with the Superior Court of New Jersey, Family Part. A copy of the complaint must then be served on your spouse, either by the County Sheriff, by mail or in person. The attorney for the defendant spouse may accept service of the complaint in lieu of the sheriff serving the complaint.
What The Defendant Spouse Must Do
If served with a Complaint or demand letter from an attorney, you should immediately consult an attorney for advice. If you contest any of the statements in the complaint, you must have a formal pleading called an "answer" filed on your behalf. You can contest alimony, custody, child support and/or equitable distribution of property. You can also file your own complaint called a "Counter-Claim." Even if you do not object to the divorce, you should speak with your attorney because other issues could effect you for many years in the future. If an answer is not filed, a default will be entered against you and a judge will make a decision without your opinion. Thereafter, you will bound by the decision of the judge. Failure to obey all portions of the court order can result in financial penalties and arrest.
Case Information Statement
If child support, alimony and equitable distribution are in issue, both spouses must fill out a Case Information Statement (CIS). This demands comprehensive information regarding your weekly, prior year and current assets, and liabilities. The court will use financial information contained in the CIS to make a determination as to the amount of child support.
In addition to the CIS, in a contested matter, Court rules permit the attorneys to require the parties to supply written answers to interrogatories (questions), depositions, (verbal answers), produce documents or admit details.
How Long Does It Take
When the divorce will be granted depends on many details. The more you and your spouse can agree upon, the faster your case can move along. There is a substantial backlog of cases that is beyond the control of your attorney. In an uncontested divorce, where all issues are agreed upon, Final Divorce hearing and divorce could be granted within a few months of filing the complaint. If any issues are contested and cant be settled, a trial and final decision could take years.
Property Settlement Agreement
The parties may agree on signing a written agreement dividing marital property and setting forth support payments. A written agreement can be made prior to the complaint or pending trial. The agreement can provide for custody, visitation, alimony, medical expenses and insurance coverage.
After a husband and wife separate, and especially if they intend to divorce, it is desirable for them to enter into a written contract to provide for: division of real estate and personal property; support, if any, payable to the dependent spouse and children; responsibility for debts and legal fees; health and life insurance arrangements; custody and visitation of children.
Also included are many other items which set forth the mutual rights and duties of the two people. Such an agreement is a contract, but may be enforced as though it is an order of court, (except certain portions such as child custody, support and visitation, which may be modified by the Court), depending on its terms and contents. It is written by your attorneys and follows negotiations between you and your spouse and your attorneys.
The judge will follow written guidelines when determining child support. The judge will look at the income of both parties and make an order compelling child support within the guidelines. The judge could also order medical and dental insurance, the payment of day-care and baby-sitting, private school tuition, and life insurance on each parents life with the child as the beneficiary. The court may also order payment of future college tuition.
Who is responsible for the support of the children?
The law imposes a duty on both parents to support their children. This obligation exist even if the parents are not married, and it continues after divorce. In determining the amount of child support to be paid by one parent to the other, the court will consider the respective incomes, earning capacities, assets and needs of both parents, and the needs of the children. The Judge has a "chart" in which he must follow to determine the amount of support that can be compelled.
What is the procedure for obtaining spouse and child support?
A person seeking spouse and/or child support may file a motion for support in the Family Court, in many cases and in all cases involving welfare, a conference will be held by a hearing officer at which both parties will be required to disclose their respective incomes and assets and prove their respective needs. An attempt will be made by the hearing officer to have the parties reach an agreement as to the amount of support. If an agreement cannot be reached, the usual procedure is for the hearing officer to submit a recommendation to the court.
If either party is not satisfied with the recommendation, he or she may demand a hearing before the court at which the order could be modified. If both parties are satisfied with the order entered by the court on the hearing officers recommendation, it will be the final order.
Can a support order be changed?
Either spouse or parent may seek modification (increase or reduction) of a support order if he or she can demonstrate that a material and substantial change of circumstances has taken place since the order was entered. An increase or decrease in earnings or an increase in the needs of the children as they grow older are examples of material and substantial changes in circumstances. Once a child reaches age 18, and is out of school the parents generally are no longer required to support that child. A motion must be made in the Superior Court to reduce or end support. However, if the child is unable to support himself or herself because of some physical, mental or emotional disability, the duty of support continues beyond 18. Parents may also be required to pay support to a child who is attending college.
Custody And Visitation
The "best interest of the child" is the basis on how the judge awards custody of the child. The mother is no longer automatically given custody of the children. The judge looks at the age and sex of the child, ability of the parent to care for the child, personal relationships and, if older, the wishes of the child. Visitation will also be ordered under most circumstances. An equal sharing of physical custody of children is also possible in appropriate cases.
As children get older, greater weight is given by the court to the childs preference as to which parent he or she wishes to reside. An important factor considered by the court is the continued residency of children in a familiar and stable home environment.
Courts are reluctant to disturbance existing arrangement if the children are doing well. The courts are also reluctant to split children between two parents because courts believe that it is in the best interest of brothers and sisters to remain together even though their parents have separated or are divorced.
Most parties eventually reach an agreement to divide property. In New Jersey, each spouse is entitled to a share of the property acquired during the marriage. There is not an automatic 50/50 split. Rather, the judge will make an "equitable distribution" of property after hearing testimony. There is no magic formula. The judge has discretion.
Upon agreement or after a trial, the judge will enter a "Final Judgment of Divorce". This will declare that the marriage has ended. The judge will sign the Final Judgment of Divorce and it will be filed with the Superior Court in Trenton.
The Final Judgment will also set forth items agreed upon or ordered, such as custody, support, and equitable distribution. After the Divorce, to make a change in support, custody, visitation etc, a formal motion must be made to the Superior Court. In this motion you must demonstrate a change in circumstances.
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